the signs with emotions and opening up
Aries: can be reeeeeally closed off. sometimes won’t open up to you for a long time until they really know that they can trust you. when they let out emotions they can be intense, quick expressions and then they will go right back to being calm, cool and collected.
Taurus: will not get too deep with other people at first, they tend to not give out too many personal details because it makes them uncomfortable to talk about anything too deep for too long. will only open up to a very select few people. they are surprisingly very good at handling other peoples emotions, though.
Gemini: come off as surface level people, but they have so much inside. they open up to people who make them feel validated, but sometimes that takes a lot. they don’t want to feel vulnerable.
Cancer: not the best with describing how they’re feeling, but they definitely feel it. you’ll hear it in the way they talk, and you’ll see it with the way their body language changes.
Leo: very expressive most of the time. they feel very deeply and they may make you feel like you know the whole story of why they are upset, but there’s probably way more detail. they won’t talk about themselves for too long when they’re sad.
Virgo: you can never really tell what they’re thinking, they tend to keep things very much inside. they don’t want to burden anyone else with their problems, you’d have to be very close to them in order to know how they’re feeling.
Libra: might not say anything, but you’ll be able to see it in them. once you get them to talk they will keep talking but only a small amount at a time. it’s easy for a libra to get lost in their own thoughts and have to get pulled out by someone who cares.
Scorpio: very intense. if they do open up to you, you’re bound to be surprised by just how much they can feel and how much their thoughts constantly take them over. they need to be reminded that you care so that they will keep telling you what is going on.
Sagittarius: very expressive. will probably text you if something is going on, but might stop talking fast if they feel like you don’t care. they need people to be engaged with them so they don’t shut down.
Capricorn: come off very serious and like they don’t have a lot inside, but they do. it might take a while for them to open up, but once they do it’s like an entirely different person, but it’s beautiful and worth sticking around for.
Aquarius: they tend to brush things off with humor. if they’re actually crying or expressing something, then something is very wrong and they will need you to listen and talk through it with them.
Pisces: they tend to have to think through what they’re thinking and feeling. once they do, you will know. but they will have to let it all out before you can say anything, they just want to be understood.
interesting read!
In order to make a relationship last, you really have to flow with a person as they change. Give them space. My friend always told me about his grandfather who was with his wife for 60 years before she passed. His grandfather said that through all that time, his wife changed so much it felt like he had been with 8 different people by the end. But he said the secret to making it last was that through all those changes, he never suffocated his wife with his own idea of who he expected her to be. Rather he loved, fully, every new woman she became.